The 49th Metro Manila Film Festival’s 4th Best Picture, When I Met You in Tokyo, is a movie that imparts numerous lessons, prompting reflection on our relationships with partners and parents. It undeniably secures its place as one of the most recommended films in the MMFF.
Starring the Star for All Seasons, Vilma Santos, in her Best Actress performance as Azon, and Christopher de Leon as Joey, audiences are treated to an exploration of love, forgiveness, and the profound beauty of life.
Set in picturesque Japan, When I Met You in Tokyo serves not only as a cinematic experience but also as a source of valuable life lessons. Its portrayal of love, forgiveness, transparency, and the beauty of life resonates deeply, encouraging audiences to reflect on their relationships and cherish meaningful moments.
Here are a few lessons that the film imparts:
Love knows no age
The film beautifully reinforces the timeless notion that love transcends age. Azon and Joey’s love story serves as a testament to the enduring power of genuine affection, proving that connections between hearts are not confined by the passage of time. Azon, an old maid, has never been married, while Joey is separated from his wife who left him for another man.
The film delivers a powerful message that love transcends age. Azon and Joey’s story reminds us to express our love openly and sincerely. Love, after all, has no boundaries, and sharing our feelings can bring profound joy and connection.
Forgiveness as a natural gift
One of the crucial lessons highlighted is the nature of forgiveness. The characters demonstrate that people are inherently forgiving, especially when one sincerely seeks forgiveness. It’s a reminder of the healing power that comes with acknowledging mistakes and seeking reconciliation.
Joey, realizing that his past haunts him, calls up his ex-wife and says that he already forgives her. Another scene demonstrates the human nature of forgiveness when Azon’s brother asks for forgiveness after swindling her. Azon easily forgives her brother after he sincerely seeks forgiveness.
Transparency in relationships
Transparency in relationships is highlighted in the film as a positive aspect. Joey, dealing with a heart condition, initially attempts to hide it from Azon to spare her concern. This subplot underscores the importance of openly communicating about one’s health and emotions within a partnership.
Likewise, Azon, upon being diagnosed with osteoarthritis, initially conceals her pain but eventually admits the difficulty of standing and walking, despite taking medication. The narrative suggests that acknowledging vulnerability is acceptable, as it fosters open communication and allows partners to take care of each other.
Embrace your soulmate
The narrative beautifully weaves the concept of soulmates into its fabric. Azon and Joey epitomize the idea that everyone has a soulmate, someone who makes them feel genuinely special and cherished. It encourages viewers not to settle for anything less than a love that enriches the soul.
Don’t be afraid to dance
Taking a bold step in love is exemplified in the film’s memorable scene where Joey invites Azon to dance while watching Japanese classical performers in a park. Initially hesitant, Azon eventually gives in, urging Joey not to let her down. This moment becomes a metaphorical and literal call to dance, serving as a powerful symbol for fearlessly embracing life and love.
When I Met You in Tokyo encourages individuals, whether on the dance floor or in matters of the heart, to cast aside inhibitions and take courageous strides forward in love.
Express love before it’s too late
Perhaps the most resonant lesson echoes through the film’s core — the urgency to express love before it’s too late.
As Azon and Joey navigate their individual struggles, the film prompts viewers to cherish their loved ones, openly sharing affection and appreciation. It serves as a poignant reminder to appreciate loved ones and express love before it’s too late.
